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Weight: 135 lbs
Shoe size: 9
Interests: Food and wine, dining, art, reading, European football.
Atrocity Exhibition (J.G. Ballard)
What I love in a sub: Obedience is next to godliness or me.
Dislikes in a sub: Futile attempts to top from the bottom and
all around disrespectful behaviour.
Loves: Corporeal punishment, bondage, domestic servitude, human
furniture, feminization, forced homosexuality to name a few.
Limits and hates: You’ll have to figure those out on your
I was born in Toronto, Canada to a father who was basically
a fun-loving partier and a mother who was much more serious
and wanted a better life. They divorced soon enough, so I never
really knew my father, but I love the dichotomy of the tale.
My father went on to raise standard bred horses and was a cowboy
of sorts and my mother went on to become a restaurateur. I was
raised by my mother in the city and used to spend hours in the
restaurant kitchen mesmerized by the creativity of the chefs.
I think my fetish for fire play (still a goal to master in my
life) stems from my fascination as the chefs would flambé
various dishes with brandies and liqueurs and the flames would
fountain in a brush of colors that too quickly subsided.
I discovered my love of domination through years of fantasizing.
I doubt I knew what I was fantasizing half the time at that
age, but my first vivid BDSM thought came when a boyfriend stood
me up on a date. This event turned into retribution fantasies
of forced homosexuality and feminization, which I continue to
love to this date. However, in University studying fine art
and experimenting with different lovers, I discovered the more
beauteous forms of bondage and human furniture.
My love of domestic servants didn’t happen until about
six years ago when I met a submissive who felt his sole purpose
was to be my slave. We lived a 24/7 lifestyle for about four
years, but I began yearning for much more than what I was getting
from this type of home life. I have since moved away from what
I personally consider the restraints of 24/7 (it is not for
everyone) and find myself currently in Europe embarking on an
adventure that continues to shape different aspects of my sexuality.