I’ll tell you a secret that’s not actually a secret. Many of us guys, from time to time, after we orgasm are almost repulsed by the idea of sex the instant after we come. It doesn’t happen all the time. Just sometimes, if you’re not attracted physically to the person whom you’re with, or maybe you have other stresses on your mind, you come plummeting back from the crescendo high of coming even before the stain has set on the sheets. Hence, sites such as Facial Abuse, at least in my mind.

You know the situation, dude shoots and then is out the door in no time flat, or if he’s gentleman, he doesn’t leave, but turns over and immediately falls asleep. I’ve done it myself there’s no denying it. Sometimes, sexual relations are simply sucking and fucking with no though of love making in mind, so once your rocks are off, all bets are off as far as how you may act in response to any tenderness shown by your partner in crime.

That’s why I think facials are such a fascinating thing for some fellows. They may boast about delivering big loads of man juice, but in the back of their minds, besides the pride producing mass amounts of protein packed little swimmers, they kind of think that sperm is gross. It’s mostly something that should be cleaned up with a wadded up Kleenex, or a worn out towel. Therefore, some is humiliation involved when a chick takes the shaken and stirred dick martini on her mug.

I’m not sure women actually are so repulsed by a guy’s cum, as he may be with his own sometimes. I mean after all, the turn off for the fellow is just finished spurting his load. The mood for him is pats. The babe on the other hand might be quite delighted to see the fruits of her labor, so to speak. It might turn her on to play with it, lick it up and even swallow it unlike the ladies in the members’ area preview who do not appear so amused. I’ve heard a woman say that it was just another way to feel one with her man.

Anyway, last night I was out with some friends and we were talking about whether certain things in porn were degrading to women, or not. One pal pointed out that generally some of the same scenarios play out in gay porn, but aren’t considered intrinsically degrading to the fellows involved. We can accept that they like it. Later, we later heard a standup comedian at a local comedy show suggest any chick who was willing to do bukkake was definitely the only gal to marry. Amen, brother!