Comments on: Boring old Vanilla http://www.fetishfish.com/blog/archives/boring-old-vanilla/ Fetish Blog from the people at Fetish Fish Thu, 20 Nov 2008 20:09:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Tracy http://www.fetishfish.com/blog/archives/boring-old-vanilla/#comment-12 Tracy Tue, 06 Dec 2005 20:26:19 +0000 http://69.90.206.210/blog/?p=7#comment-12 You are quite right, and especially regarding rope bondage. ;) However, fetish aspects are added everyday to vanilla, and I suppose my point was ultimately that we need to add to it (vanilla) in order to truly intoxicate in sex as you have described, or to truly find that passionate place within and without that drives us intensely mad. Thanks for your response Dr. M. Loved reading it. XO You are quite right, and especially regarding rope bondage. ;) However, fetish aspects are added everyday to vanilla, and I suppose my point was ultimately that we need to add to it (vanilla) in order to truly intoxicate in sex as you have described, or to truly find that passionate place within and without that drives us intensely mad.

Thanks for your response Dr. M. Loved reading it. XO

]]> By: dr_mabeuse http://www.fetishfish.com/blog/archives/boring-old-vanilla/#comment-9 dr_mabeuse Fri, 02 Dec 2005 23:59:28 +0000 http://69.90.206.210/blog/?p=7#comment-9 You add all that stuff and you end up a long way from plain old vanilla. I know what you're saying, and there'll always be a place for tender, loving sex, but as far as my experience goes, vanilla sex has nothing of the depth and breathless intensity of emotion of BDSM. The discipline of the ropes (which essentially leads to foreplay that can last for hours, which in itself is worth the cost of the rope), the transfer of power, the elements of fear and exultation, and the interplay of sub and dom create an emotional atmosphere of intense intimacy and consuming passion that vanilla just can't touch. I remember my first BDSM orgasm. In vanilla, you come with your body. In BDSM, I came with my body, my heart, and my soul. It was an orgasm of the spirit, and it made the vanilla sex I'd known seem like an eighth-grade make-out party. No. There'll always be a place for vanilla, and BDSM is a bit too intense for me to do every day, but there's really no comparison in my book. You add all that stuff and you end up a long way from plain old vanilla.

I know what you’re saying, and there’ll always be a place for tender, loving sex, but as far as my experience goes, vanilla sex has nothing of the depth and breathless intensity of emotion of BDSM. The discipline of the ropes (which essentially leads to foreplay that can last for hours, which in itself is worth the cost of the rope), the transfer of power, the elements of fear and exultation, and the interplay of sub and dom create an emotional atmosphere of intense intimacy and consuming passion that vanilla just can’t touch.

I remember my first BDSM orgasm. In vanilla, you come with your body. In BDSM, I came with my body, my heart, and my soul. It was an orgasm of the spirit, and it made the vanilla sex I’d known seem like an eighth-grade make-out party.

No. There’ll always be a place for vanilla, and BDSM is a bit too intense for me to do every day, but there’s really no comparison in my book.

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