Like anything, fisting is not exclusive to BDSM.

Even to this day, I recall my first fisting experience. I was young and relatively new to the lesbian scene. I was completely infatuated by this girl and we’d been dating for a little more than a couple of weeks when she totally took me by surprise and wanted to be fisted. Quite frankly I had absolutely no clue about what that was all about and when I suddenly found my hand deep within her pussy I can’t even describe to you the incredible and dizzying feeling of elation and completeness, not only for me, but for her as a receiver.

Since that time I have come across many people that have either experienced or know about fisting. There are some attitudes toward it that seem completely archaic; particularly those that want to view it with an amount of irresponsibility. Some individuals seem to view it as a kick of power, others see it as an extreme act of violence, but when done with patience, responsibility and love, it can be one of the most powerfully intense emotional experiences for both the person giving and the person receiving. It’s unfortunate that few porn sites, aside from K-Scans that I know of, portray fisting as anything other than freakish.

Fisting can’t just be done. A woman, or man’s body for that matter, just can’t suddenly stretch to a point where you can shove in your hand. It’s actually a longer process and there are many safety factors involved for both participants. It’s also good to realize at the outset that not every person’s body can handle fisting, either because of pain or because this is the way our individual bodies are constructed. For those interested in learning more, although I would always suggest talking to seasoned practitioners rather than relying on the web, then there are a few sites that I highly recommend for a beginning knowledge or introduction to fisting and handballing and include RedRider 4 RedRose and SexualityOrg.