Fetishism pt 1 Written by: Will, 11/08/2005
I guess the beginning is the most logical place to start. So, let us begin with
the origin of the word fetish. It wasn’t always sexual in its meaning. In
fact, it was more of an anthropological term and continues to be used by some
today to describe any object that is deemed to have been imbued with magical powers
or is related to the supernatural. Finally, my speech writing days from elementary
school public speaking contests have paid off or perhaps I have been watching
too much bad local station news reporting. Nevertheless, I decided to look the
word up in the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary so I could give the most accurate
definition before proceeding with our investigation into the subject. The English
word fetish comes from the French word, fétich, which was borrowed from
Portuguese word feitiço, meaning artificial, false originating from the
Latin word facticius meaning factitious1. You may ask then how did we arrive at
the modern concept of sexual fetish, which is defined in the same dictionary as,
“An object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically
necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent
that it may interfere with complete sexual expression2.” It has to do with
politically incorrect notions of early anthropology when it was still considered
acceptable to deride other cultures’ beliefs and religion, when less abstract
societies by default meant less sophisticated.
Charles de Brosses created the idea in 1757 when along with other contemporary
scholars of his day he suggested that fetishism was the most primitive form
of religion. In other words, less civilized cultures rather than creating elaborate
systems of religious beliefs placed their faith in magical objects or “false”
gods. Obviously, such presumption would seem derogatory by today’s ethical
standards and even by the 19th century, philosophers like Herbert Spencer rejected
the theory that fetishism was the "original religion". Later in the
same century, anthropologists and historians of religion including E. B. Tylor
and J. F. McLennan formed other theories such as animism and totemism to explain
the concept of fetishism3. Needless to say, the word fetish stuck as far as describing
objects with magical powers and much later in time, the concept was perverted
to mean objects taking on a sexual power. Think of it like Dumbo’s magic
feather but instead of getting the elephant off the ground, the sexual fetish
object just gets the elephant off period.
In the past especially, sexual fetishes were considered perversions or at least
deviations from the norm. Let’s face it that’s how the mental health
community once treated being gay or women who liked sex “too much”,
but now psychology tends to only judge behavior as adaptive or maladaptive,
in other words if it works don’t fix it. The true measure of a person’s
wellbeing and behavior is whether he or she can function effectively in society
and whether he or she can develop stable and long lasting relationships with
the people around him or her. Obviously, you can be quite serious about a fetish
behavior and still hold down a job and form romantic attachments. You might
even form special bonds and relationships based upon your specific fetish interest.
It’s questionable to refer to fetishistic practices as abnormal either
from a psychological standpoint, not to mention the flood of fetish clubs, websites
and media references right within the mainstream4. It needn’t be anyone’s
dirty little secret at this point.
Let’s begin to look at some of the earliest psychological explanations
for sexual fetishes. We must of course turn to our favorite old pervert, Freud,
who of course had a tendency to connect all issues to sex and refer to much
of what he deemed “peculiar” personal habits as signs of poor development
during childhood. Rest assured a fetish for him falls very comfortably under
his perversion theories. The young male child is thrilled to discover his own
penis, since of course the penis is a wonderful thing. Once little Willy has
discovered his little willy, he feels compelled to admire the penises of all
his idolized loved ones as well, including of course, his mother. When a male
toddler realizes that his motherly parental unit has no parental unit, he is
immediately horrified since according to Freud the young child assumes that
his mother did have one but it was cut-off (castration anxiety). In that brief
moment of terrified castration realization, the male baby will develop a sexual
dependence on whatever object immediately comes into view after his traumatic
discovery of mommy’s unfortunate lack of a penis. It may sound slightly
far-fetched. However, one must admit that if a small child was checking between
his mother’s legs and then looked away when no penis was found the next
thing to see might be her shoes, stockings or bare feet, which are all commonly
known and accepted fetishes for many men to have5... (to be continued)
References
1. "Fetish."
Merriam-Webster's Collegiate® Dictionary, Tenth Edition, 1998. Merriam-Webster
Online, 20 Jul. 2005.
2. Ibid.
3. "Fetishism."
Wikipedia, 2005. Answers.com GuruNet Corp. 20 Jul. 2005.
4. “Sexual
Fetishes.” Cool Nurse, 2005. CoolNurse.com, 20 Jul. 2005.
5. "Sexual
fetishism." Wikipedia, 2005. Answers.com GuruNet Corp. 20 Jul. 2005.
6. “A
monopoly of perversion.” Psychology Today, March 1992. Psychology
Today Online, 20 Jul. 2005.
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